Divorce is increasing, not decreasing, says new study
A new study sheds some light on the U.S. divorce rate, and what
has really been going on over the past few decades. It was thought that the
divorce rate was decreasing since the 1970s, but the new study paints a very
different picture. According to the new research, "the age-standardized
refined divorce rate increased substantially after 1990 and is now at an
all-time high."
It's a
startling revelation in some ways, but in others it may not mean too much.
Divorce is actually a simple "device," if you want to think about it
in those terms. It allows people who are married but realize that their
marriage is no longer tenable to solve their problem.
That is
the crux of the matter: divorce is a solution to a problem, not a problem that
is in need of solving. People who are unhappy in their marriages and recognize
that it is time to change are going to file for divorce regardless
of the divorce rate. There will never be a magical number that the divorce rate
needs to hit for people to stop divorcing. That world will never exist.
So in the
real world where divorce happens
all the time and it shouldn't be considered a problem, it is best for unhappy
couples to consult an experienced family law attorney to help
them get organized and prepared for their split. In some ways, this is more
important for fathers who could be confronted with some complex child custody
matters in their divorce.
Source: Huffington Post, "Is
the US Divorce Rate Going Up Rather Than Going Down?," Robert
Hughes Jr., March 6, 2014